Few questions to ask before marriage
1. Are you ready for marriage? Life before marriage is like being independent - full of joy and fun n no restrictions on what so ever. No need to be like someone by someone.
2. What will you do if, after 10 years, who do not love me the same way as it does today?
3. Want children and how many?
4. What role will play in the upbringing of children?
5. What do you see as the role of a man and a woman in marriage? Do you believe in equal, or expect to be the boss? Are you willing to share financial decisions, even if you do all or most of the money? What if the spouse is responsible for financial management of both?
6. Getting married can be expensive. Once you are married, how will you spend your money? Discussing matters of money early (and consumption habits in which everyone feels that their money should go) can prevent disagreements later. Talk about how you and your partner feel about buying, saving and distribution of bank accounts.
7. How important is religion to you, and what role it is expected that when raising children? If there are specific rituals. rules, and holidays expected to be observed?
8. Where and how you will live? In the south or east? In a house or an apartment? Have you ever be willing to change his job?
9. If you're OK with living with parents or would like our new family to be separated from our parents.
10. Can you cook and perform normal household tasks? Can you share the work with the mother.
11. Can you stand when you can not go for a walk or dinner often or on schedule?
12. Would you like to continue working or, if necessary, stop working and stay home?
13. How would you like to deal with a situation of problems - such as being completely out of money for a major life activity?
14. What is a ideal vacation? What if we can not go for a vacation very often for various reasons (like being engaged with the work of a partner, etc)?
